When you thrive out in the world, in the places you love, that coping strategy is impossible to recreate right now. There isn’t an app for smiling at a stranger across a crowded cafe, or for the way your dress flutters against your legs on a perfect spring day. No amount of control or self care or intention can account for a need for something that is real and physical and palpable. Here we look at how the stay in place orders are starting to affect our mental health even as we look for silver linings.