If Lost Start Here is a guide for the anxious, curious, lonely and lost. Featuring everyday places and at-home prompts designed to help you live a life that feels good.
If Lost Start Here is a guide for the anxious, curious, lonely and lost. Featuring everyday places and at-home prompts designed to help you live a life that feels good.
You’ve chosen the Awe and Wonder Pathway.
Experiences of awe and wonder can provide a corrective to the everyday challenges that we all face. (i.e. Have you ever seen a dolphin? Majestic.)
According to Dacher Keltner at Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center who led a multi-year research project on the universality of awe, its effects are wide-ranging. Our experience of awe has many pro-social impacts, like community integration and improvements in physical health (it’s the only emotion that has been found to reduce inflammation), impacting our curiosity and sense of purpose, and awakening our mind, taking us from self-interest to a collective one.
Curiosity sits naturally here. It’s the thing that opens our minds and stretches our world.
However, we’ve found that there's a difference in the "online" version of curiosity, where we sit down to check our email and are, two hours later, inexplicably scouring the Instagram pages of the Kardashian sisters, wondering earnestly how all their furniture looks so pristine and if their children enjoyed their star-studded birthday bashes...and the curiosity that lives closer to the world we know, in the analog.
For us, curiosity is best sated in the real world, where books and people and natural wonders abound. (Also, there is no click-bait.)
Your challenge: see how you best feed your curiosity.
We’re aware that awe and wonder can mean different things to different people: nature vs books vs planets vs podcasts vs art vs travel. Below we’ve started to pull together some of those places that help us build awe, sustain wonder, and feed our curiosity in our everyday worlds.
Experiential museums, public artworks, planetariums, castles, festivals, lectures, bookstores, and national parks. There are many ways to access curiosity, find a feeling of awe, and lose yourself in wonder. Here’s a rundown of the places we’ve featured so far on If Lost, Start Here.
We’re adding to this as we go along so check back to discover more everyday magic. Let us know where you find awe so we can bring it into our guide. Help us share more of what we need with other people who need it too.
Explore 42 Acres, a 173-acre regenerative estate and nature reserve in Somerset offering transformative retreats and nature-based experiences. Swim in the lake, meditate in the treehouse, or nourish yourself with farm-to-table food grown on-site.
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Seek wonder at The Lost Gardens of Heligan and discover a land once forgotten.
A visit to a museum can be one of those everyday adventures that helps inspire us in our daily lives, feeds our curiosity, and brings a sense of awe and wonder into our days. Here’s a round-up of five museums in London that recently offered the life pick-me-up that we needed.
A bright blue beacon on Lower Clapton Road, Pages of Hackney is one of our favourite bookstores for reading advice. Founder Eleonor Lowenthal talks to us about what makes Pages of Hackney so unique and why independent bookstores matter so much to our neighborhoods.
An indie bookstore, that offers typewriters repairs, origami animals and soup on Christmas Day. Founder Tom Hodges tells us whyTypewronger is far more than just a place to buy books.
The sea contains multitudes and it is exactly this complexity that keeps calling designer Sarah Robertson to it in moments of loss and need.
We speak to Amber Rich, founder of The Little Retreat and The Big Retreat Festival about how she arrived at these projects, how wellness is now something that we all reach for, and her role as a curator of discovery and awe.
Looking for some inspiration for where to shop for those indie magazines you love? Here are just a handful of our favorites. Let us know yours.
Now allowing in humans, this store has everything the monster in you needs (and a not-so-secret cause behind it all).
For curiosity seekers, book lovers, and those looking for an escape into ideas, Crickhowell’s Book-ish makes a community out of reading.
As we’re forced to head outside this winter, we’re looking to an open-air art museum for awe and wonder in a natural setting.
Edinburgh’s Golden Hare Books keeps the city’s literary tradition alive with its thoughtful curation.
This month, we’re finding awe and wonder in our independent bookstores. First up for booklovers and the curious, Mr B’s Emporium.
In a moment when time is stretching out, Anthony Gormley’s “Iron Men” captures the wonder of shifting lives.
A beloved independent bookstore to escape to, even from your sitting room when necessary.
Make your own riverside tent and join the world’s largest philosophy and music festival this weekend.
Illustrator Michaela Hobson revisits an old favorite, London’s Natural History Museum, and finds a place for inspiration, knowledge and respite.
What does one of the most popular visitor attractions in the UK have to do with wellbeing? A lot it would seem.
Can you be a fan of a place like you can be of a person? We’re kind of like that with everything from the DO Lectures.
London’s Teatulia is uniquely a tea house, cocktail bar and literary salon all rolled into one. It’s also a podcast.
Dartington, we found out, is one of those special places that are many different things to many different people, some of which we’d guessed at, and many of which we hadn’t. It’s like a polymath of a place.
Jodrell Bank is one of those truly special places for a spectacular, constant, reason. Right here is one of the biggest and most powerful radio telescopes in the world.
At a time when we’re driven more and more into the informational world of our phones, Bath’s Magalleria stakes physical/ actual space for the recent resurgence of independent magazines.
With sounds bouncing off the rocks in every direction, the venue, and surrounding 700 acres, offer an immersive and awe-inspiring setting for your favorite musical acts. On our trip, we photographed deer and birds (and one random feral cat) as we awaited entry to Phoebe Bridgers show. For lovers of nature and music, there simply could not be a more beautiful place to lose yourself. (Spoiler alert: I cried twice.)
A space dedicated to bringing fiction into the world, that supports our real lives as it does so.
San Francisco’s Black Bird Books sits on the edge of the world while being resolutely of its place.
A movement born on social media changing the narratives that make up our neighborhoods.
Is sitting in a ball pit allowed anymore? Why The Color Factory is making the argument that it is.
Between the setting and the breathtaking view, it’s difficult to leave here without a newfound sense of awe and wonder - a feeling we could all use, at the moment.
Our take on whether Disneyland is really “The Happiest Place on Earth”.
In Nashville author Ann Patchett gives bookstores the happy ending that they deserve.
As humans we’re obsessed by time, with running through our days while also being in the moment. We’re a little confused about it. To get a more balanced, holistic view head to San Francisco’s The Interval.
Maria Popova, a similar collector of interesting (in ideas rather than things) encourages: “Be curious. Be constantly, consistently, indiscriminately curious.” We had that quote in mind talking to Lea and wandering through Lucky Penny Parlor.
Moab is a place to discover yourself in the present, but with a deep sense of being cradled by the past. A place to feel beloved on the earth.
The great irony of Marfa is that it isn’t really trying to be anything other than what it is: a tiny, dusty Texas town. The city of Marfa website pitches it as “more than just a place. . . . It’s a state of mind,” but my mom and I agreed that that gives the wrong idea.
City Lights Bookstore is a literary landmark and a magical meeting place for intellectual inquiry.
Most city gardens are well manicured and pretty to visit, but Descanso maintains a unique kind of messiness that instantly transports you into a magical world of plants, trees, and flowers.
Waking up in Joshua Tree was waking up in another world. Had I even seen the sun rise before? Had the light ever touched anything with such intention?? It hit me fairly quickly what people find appealing about this place. In the light of day, the landscape feels less like a barren wasteland and more like a waiting canvas, a palpable feeling of possibility filling the limitless space.
It’s when Susan Orlean writes of the multipurpose function of libraries now to be the spaces that can reflect our public imagination that we feel like signing up to be a librarian right now.
We talked to Silent Book Club co-founder Laura Gluhanich about how a simple night of reading with a friend became a global phenomenon.
Though we’re mostly about small in the places we bring into our guide, sometimes we need to go big, like EPIC big.
There are the obvious jokes one can make about the plethora of experiential pop-up museums that have emerged in our new Instagram-able world, but perhaps there is a kind of beauty that would not have been dreamed nor experienced had social media not been invented.
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